Rewire the Response
Stop Managing Meltdowns.
Start Preventing Them.
For parents of neurodivergent kids, 'consequences' don't stop the chaos--regulation does.
Move from daily explosions to a calm, connected home with tools that actually work.
See why parents using the Reset Protocol report stopping meltdowns in under 10 minutes—
without yelling or punishments.
Dr. David A Palmer | Trusted by 500+ Families & Educators Who Refused to Settle for 'Survival Mode'
If This Sounds Like You,
You’re in the Right Place
Walking on eggshells at home, never sure what will set your child off.
Getting constant calls or emails from school about “behavior problems.”
Watching sticker charts, punishments, or “be consistent” advice make things worse.
Feeling guilt and doubt: “Is it me? Is it them? What am I missing?”
You’re not failing.
You’re dealing with a nervous system in survival mode
—yours and theirs.
Your Path from Chaos to Connection
Join the hundreds of families who have transformed their daily struggles into deeper connections using nervous system-first approaches.
STEP 1: Get Immediate Relief
Start with the Trigger Decoder Checklist. In a few minutes, you’ll see which of the four common neurological triggers is driving most of your child’s blowups—and what to do in the moment to restore safety and calm.
Step 2: Learn the System
Once you see the sparks, you need a plan. The Rewire Reset PDF Kit walks you through my full nervous-system-first framework, with step-by-step guides, visuals, and scripts you can use at home and in the classroom.
Melissa and James H. Parents
It has been a privilege to work with Dr.Palmer! His insights and guidance were a tremendous help in navigating all things neurodivergence and parenting in general. The reassurance and validation he gave us in knowing what we were dealing with on a daily basis was not only typical but expected, really helped us feel so much more at ease!
Jennifer R. 2nd-Grade Teacher
Dr. Palmer's collaboration transformed my classroom practice. he offered insights that changed my understanding of all students' needs, not just those with special needs. His methods challenged my views on classroom management, leading to remarkable improvements in student engagement and classroom dynamics.
Jessica and Tony G. Parents
Dr. Palmer has been a blessing to our family. He has gone the extra mile to support our child and our whole family. He has provided very informative assessments, and his coaching has been instrumental in meetings at school. He has been and continues to be a lighthouse in navigating new waters.
Kelsey M. Teacher and ADHD Certified Coach
Dr Palmer's insight on supporting neurodivergent children is both powerful and practical. As a teacher, creating a space where students feel safe, seen and valued is essential and that starts with connection before correction. His emphasis on building nervous system safety through relationships is a vital reminder that regulation comes through co-regulation. This work is a must for educators committed to honoring neurodiversity and helping every child thrive and being unapologetically themselves.
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I have a doctorate in Special Education and 30 years of classroom experience. But when I became a father to six neurodivergent, trauma-impacted children, my degrees didn't stop the meltdowns. I tried sticker charts, time-outs, and "consequences." They only made things worse.
I had to stop trying to fix my kids and start rewiring my response. Now, I help parents and teachers trade chaos for connection using the same nervous-system-first framework that saved my family.
