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SUPPORT FOR EVERY STRUGGLE

Nervous system support for parents raising neurodivergent kids — so you feel less drained and more connected.

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Ready for a Change?

Explore the ways we can work together.

1:1 Coaching

Turn daily battles into connection with personalized strategies for YOUR child's nervous system

Group Programs

Find your community and master proven strategies with parents who understand your journey

On-Demand Courses

Master the science behind your child's behavior at your own pace—any time, anywhere

Speaking and Workshops

Book engaging keynotes and workshops where I explore the transformative Rewire the Response methodology for parenting, educational, nonprofit, or corporate organizations.

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Hi, I'm Dr. David A Palmer -
Your Nervous System Parenting Coach

For years, I sat with parents who were exhausted, heartbroken, and wondering why nothing seemed to work for their child. I saw the same frustration in their eyes that I once felt myself—when every day felt like an uphill climb.

Then I realized something that changed everything: emotional dysregulation isn’t a behavior problem—it’s a nervous system issue. When I started approaching it that way, the breakthroughs came.


My credentials:

  • Doctor of Education: Special Education

  • 30 years as an educational leader and teacher

  • Specialist in neurodivergence, trauma, and developmental psychology

  • Creator of the Rewire the Response Framework


Today, I’m passionate about giving you tools that actually work for YOUR child’s unique nervous system.

You're Not Alone in This Journey

Join the hundreds of families who have transformed their daily struggles into deeper connections using nervous system-first approaches.

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Melissa & James H.

Parents

It has been a privilege to work with Dr.Palmer! His insights and guidance were a tremendous help in navigating all things neurodivergence and parenting in general. The reassurance and validation he gave us in knowing what we were dealing with on a daily basis was not only typical but expected, really helped us feel so much more at ease! 

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Jennifer R.

2nd Grade Teacher

Dr. Palmer's collaboration transformed my classroom practice.  he offered insights that changed my understanding of all students' needs, not just those with special needs.  His methods challenged my views on classroom management, leading to remarkable improvements in student engagement and classroom dynamics. 

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Tony & Jessica G.

Parents

Dr. Palmer has been a blessing to our family. He has gone the extra mile to support our child and our whole family. He has provided very informative assessments, and his coaching has been instrumental in meetings at school. He has been and continues to be a lighthouse in navigating new waters.

Your Child's Breakthrough Starts Here

Download the Emergency Meltdown Protocol and discover:
 
The 5-step process that works in any meltdown moment:
 

  • Scripts for what to say when your child is dysregulated

  • How to co-regulate your own nervous system first

  • Signs that the protocol is working (hint: it's not immediate compliance)


This isn't just another parenting technique. It's a completely different way of understanding your amazing child.

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FREE DOWNLOAD:

The Emergency Meltdown Protocol

The exact steps I use with families to turn meltdown moments into connection opportunities—even when you're both overwhelmed.

"This changed our entire family dynamic. We went from daily battles to daily connection." - Sarah M., Mom of 8-year-old with ADHD

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